On Dealing with Fairies (2024)

By Pollyanna Jones, co-author of Magical Folk: British and Irish Fairies (2018) and author of Legends & Folklore: London (awaiting publication)

Foreword

There are many tales about fairies, but how do we deal with them? Over the years, customs and behaviours have been developed so that your encounter with a fairy can be a positive one. Pollyanna gives us her top eight tips on how to keep on a fairy’s good side.

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Fairies have been both loved and feared throughout the ages. With supernatural powers, they are described in folklore and fairy tales as being able to both gift and curse, or at least cause mischief to humans. Items going missing, a spate of breakages of household items, sickness in animals, and periods of bad luck were suspected to follow an instance of upsetting the fairies. As a result, various superstitions and customs developed on establishing healthy relationships with the Good Folk to avoid displeasing them.

Tip One:

It would seem that fairies dislike discord within their host’s homes. Bad language and arguments are bound to cause upset; seemingly these magical folk enjoy their peace and quiet. Offerings of milk and honey could be left to appease the fairies should they have been upset by their human companions.

Tip Two:

Circles of mushrooms known as fairy rings were described as being left behind by fairy footfalls after a night of dancing under the moon. It is considered very bad luck to break a fairy ring, causing seven years of bad luck to fall upon anyone who damages them. Some people avoid walking inside them entirely, believing them to be portals to the fairy realm.

Tip Three:

Anything shiny is supposed to attract the fairies, and you may find that these items go missing only to appear in the most unexpected places once the fairies are bored with their newly found toy. A more recent phenomena is that of placing “fairy nests” or fairy doors in the garden in the hopes that the fey will make such a place their home, helping a garden to thrive. This is a very recent idea, following on from the Victorian concept of flower fairies, and romanticism and taming of these folk.

Tip Four:

The elder tree is believed to be associated with the fairies, and bad luck or seven years in fairyland awaits anyone who would pick flowers from this plant on Midsummer’s eve.

Tip Five:

Not all fairies are benevolent! Should you find yourself out walking alone at night, and hear the whickering of a horse or see a strange light up ahead, do not follow, for you may find yourself waylaid and Puck led. Survivors of such experiences often awoke in a muddy ditch, fooled by fairy lights into straying off their path and into disaster.

Tip Six:

For those fearful of fairies dwelling in their homes, yellow flowering broom plants outside the house are thought to act as a deterrent. As are any items crafted from iron.

Tip Seven:

Whilst invisible to most humans, there were ways in which one could obtain the enchanted eye. One would be to wash their eyelids with the dew collected on May Day’s eve. Another is to gaze through a hole within a hagstone: a stone with a naturally formed hole within it.

Tip Eight:

There are ways to know when a fairy is present nearby, without the aid of a hagstone. The bobbing of a head of bog cotton, when the air is still, laughter heard without an apparent source, or a sudden swirl of leaves crossing the road marks the passing through of one of these magical beings. It is courteous to nod your head or tip your hat to acknowledge them if you are to be known as a friend to the fey. Be warned though, once you are noticed, this can never be undone!

Pollyanna Jones’s published work includes articles for The Celtic Guide magazine, Mythology Magazine, and internet sites, including The Spooky Isles and Radio Rivendell. Pollyanna has written a chapter on Worcestershire’s Pixies and Pixy Rocks for Magical Folk: British and Irish Fairies (Gibson Square Books Ltd, 2018), and is awaiting the publication of Legends & Folklore: London (Bradwell Books). She tackles various projects – from interviews to reviews, magazine articles to non-fiction publications – focusing on the magical world of folklore.

You can follow Pollyanna on Facebook and Twitter, or you can follow her work on her website or linkedin.

On Dealing with Fairies (2024)

FAQs

How to deal with fairies? ›

Rules of the Fey
  1. Never say 'Thank you' to them. ...
  2. Never, ever accept a gift from a Fey. ...
  3. Never lie to a Fey. ...
  4. Always keep your word when dealing with a Fey. ...
  5. The Fey hate dirty water. ...
  6. Never brag about any interaction that you may have with them. ...
  7. Don't spy on them or capture their likeness without their permission.

What happens if a Fae knows your name? ›

In the old stories this phrasing only meant that you accidentally revealed your full name to the Folk and thereby gave them power over you. With your name they could enchant or lure you, they might even be able to influence your behavior.

What is a weakness to fairies? ›

It's old lore. Faeries and evil spirits were believed to have a weakness to cold iron. It's why horseshoes are considered lucky; it used to be that nailing one to the door would keep away faeries.

What are the Fae laws? ›

The Unseelie Accords are the laws all Fae must follow, including Wyld Fae. They are as follows: 1) A favour once owed, must be repaid. There must always be balance. Never take anything without giving something of equal value in return. Never give a favour without getting one in kind.

What attracts fairies to your house? ›

Leave offerings: Fairies are said to appreciate gifts and offerings. Leave small trinkets like crystals, shells, or pretty stones around your home or garden as a sign of goodwill.

How do you protect against fairy? ›

In terms of protective charms, wearing clothing inside out, church bells, St. John's wort, and four-leaf clovers are regarded as effective. In Newfoundland folklore, the most popular type of fairy protection is bread, varying from stale bread to hard tack or a slice of fresh homemade bread.

What happens if you anger a fae? ›

If someone annoys a Fae sufficiently, they will generally take an elaborate revenge upon that person at some point in the future, sometimes taking decades to plan it. In the interim, their victim is marked with a curse, warning other Creatures not to mess with that person until they've had their go.

What does fae do to humans? ›

Fae will steal adults as well. They are particularly fond of musicians and poets and will take them away to their realm for their entertainment. They also take humans who offend them and transform them into strange creatures or keep them as servants. In some versions of the story of Tam Lin the bard, he went willingly.

Do fae tell the truth? ›

In folklore and fiction the idea that fae can't lie is very common. Hags aren't generally considered Fae (that's a D&Dism). While Fae can't tell a lie, they can mislead and they mislead all the time. The most common way to achieve this is to very selectively tell you only parts of the truth.

What are fairies afraid of? ›

"Cold iron" is historically believed to repel, contain, or harm ghosts, fairies, witches, and other malevolent supernatural creatures. This belief continued into later superstitions in a number of forms: Nailing an iron horseshoe to a door was said to repel evil spirits or, later, to bring good luck.

What is the enemy of a fairy? ›

Therefore, iron became known as the enemy of the 'fairy folk. ' In Wicca, wands are usually made from hazel or rowan — grown things of natural origin, reinforcing the connection with the seasons and cycles of nature, with which we work in harmony.

What hurts faeries? ›

In most folklore iron is the only metal that can cause human-like injuries to a faery and usually a part cut off with iron cannot be restored. Iron chains can be used to restrain a faery or restrict their magick.

How to recognize the fae? ›

1 Fae have “hard to stop” energy.
  1. Fae have “hard to stop” energy. ...
  2. The age of a Fae does not match their aura. ...
  3. Fae have compelling dexterity. ...
  4. They are constantly muttering spells. ...
  5. Fae have snacks. ...
  6. They appear in non-general places. ...
  7. They creep out the incurious. ...
  8. Fae know ancient & dangerous things.
Feb 16, 2024

What language do the fae speak? ›

Fae language is the language spoken by the Fae. Known speakers of the language include Bast and Felurian.

What is the difference between a fae and a fairy? ›

The term "fae" is commonly used to refer to mythical winged creatures with pointed ears known as fairies, however, the term can also be used more broadly to refer to any type of fairy or faerie creature from various cultures and traditions.

What is a fairy fairy weakness? ›

Fairy-type moves are super-effective against Dark-, Dragon-, and Fighting-type Pokémon, while Fairy-type Pokémon are weak to Poison- and Steel-type moves.

How to make fairies happy? ›

11 tips to attract fairies
  1. a water fountain in your home that clatters on crystal or a rock.
  2. a plant near your pond.
  3. a plant that grows out of or on a rock.
  4. a herb garden mainly with old stone formations.
  5. shrines and altars to nature gods.
  6. wine cellars (yes don't ask me why but it seems to work)
  7. fantasy altars with offerings.
May 6, 2021

Why am I so away with the fairies? ›

When you hear the expression 'Away with the fairies', you imagine someone rather useless. Someone chronically distracted, with a short attention span and no common sense. Someone – if we're not being polite – a bit batty.

What happens if you break a fairy circle? ›

Destroying a fairy ring is unlucky and fruitless; superstition says it would simply grow back.

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